[core] Add compaction duration log

[dwangatt]

Purpose

• Add logs to trace the duration for compaction writer, so that in job log, we can analyse slow compaction task, bucket size distribution, slow partitions etc.
• Log real partition info instead of BinaryRow object address when Paimon detects inconsistent bucket setup during committing data to tables.

Tests

No change to code logic, so existing UT/IT should cover the change from this PR.